The Details…

When do I need to RSVP?

We kindly ask that you RSVP by April 4th via the Paperless Post email invitation sent on February 15th.

What to wear?

Welcome Event (Friday): Dressy Casual
Jackets optional

Wedding (Saturday): Festive Fall Cocktail
Suit or a blazer with dress pants - tie optional

Klatch (Sunday): Casual
Please come as you are!

Keep in mind:

  • Events will be held outside, weather permitting.

  • Fall in Maine can be chilly - layers are your friend!

  • You'll be walking on grass, so choose footwear accordingly.

  • We encourage you to have fun with the dress code while staying in the cocktail realm :)

What‘s the weather like?

Who knows! Not us. We're hoping for one of those perfect autumn days, but we're prepared for anything. The weather this time of year is very unpredictable, with temperatures typically ranging from the low 40s to upper 60s. The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outside uncovered, dinner will be under a tent, and dancing will be in the barn. In case of rain, everything will be in the barn or under the tent.

How do I get around?

We will have a shuttle running between our two event locations, so you shouldn’t need to drive either evening! On Friday, the shuttle will bring guests staying at Tops‘l to and from the Welcome Event at the Whitehall Inn in Camden. On Saturday, the shuttle will bring guests from the Whitehall Inn in Camden to and from Tops’l Farm for the wedding (you do not need to be staying at the Inn to get a ride). If you’d prefer to drive, there is parking at the venue.

Will the Welcome Party include dinner?

Yes! We will have a wood-fired pizza oven churning out pies before your eyes along with light appetizers, salad, and drinks.

Do we have a wedding registry?

Your presence at our wedding is truly the greatest gift! We know many guests are traveling from far away, and we're grateful for the time and expense involved in sharing our special day. For those who have kindly asked, we have created a registry, link here.

Are children invited?

This will be a grown-ups only celebration!